Be honest, you hate your life but feel like it’s too late for things to change. You look at other people living their lives and wish it was you. You’re unhappy and wish that you could have a do-over but you’re afraid to step out and change your situation because you don’t know where to start. You know that there is more to life than the way you’re living it and you’re tired of waking up regretting your life. CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE
2016 is almost here! Are you sighing loudly because it means another year where you lived life without intention, no plan, no structure? Maybe you had a plan, you set some goals but there was no follow through. I’ve been there, I now how you feel and it’s not a good way to feel year after year.
Does this sound like you?
You are living life on autopilot and it’s really starting to bother you. Life is happening but you’re not living. You know that there has to be more to life than this. Your biggest need right now is for something to change in the way that you are living life. You want to make a change, you want a rich and satisfying life.
You know that your life can be rich and satisfying. You really want to make a change but right now you can’t seem to do it. You feel overwhelmed, you are not clear about what you want, you feel like you have no support, you want someone to guide you to the next step, you can’t make a decision, and you have no follow through. You are frustrated, and disappointed. It’s because you know that you’re not living your best life and that’s not ok. You know that you cannot continue feeling this way. You may even be depressed. You are starting to think that maybe this is your life and that scares you.
Your primary focus needs to be on getting clear on the change that you want in your life and taking steps to make it happen. It’s all about creating a plan for a rich and satisfying life and implementing the plan. You need someone to brainstorm with, hold your hands and guide you. You want one on one attention and accountability. You are ready to change and take charge of your life.
You know that you can change your situation if you had:
- One on one coaching calls.
- Worksheets and tools to facilitate your journey.
- Weekly email check ins and motivation.
- Weekly open office hours if you’re in need of a pick me up.
- Subscription to A Rich and Satisfying Life motivational emails.
Take a look at the coaching plans that I offer and schedule a complimentary call where together we’ll determine how we can work together to get you on the path to creating and living the life that you want. Let’s work together.
I didn’t realize it before, but I was a rebel. I rebelled against structure and routine. I did not want to take the time to consider it all. I would rather “wing it and fly by the seat of my pants.” This way I have my freedom and I’m in control. Or, so I thought.
I scoffed at people with everything mapped out. Rise at 6, oatmeal at 6:30, chicken on Monday’s, grocery shopping on Thursday’s. How restricting I thought. My way of doing things gave me so much freedom. Rise anytime before 7,breakfast whenever I wanted (if I want), who knows what’s for dinner, and I’ll grocery shop whenever I want, thank you very much!
There’s a saying that goes “how you do anything, is how you do everything”, it’s true. My attitude about routine and planning in my daily personal life carried over to all the other areas of my life. The goals that I set for myself and the life I envisioned were not happening. Time was passing and I felt like my life was falling apart.
Where was the control and freedom I reveled in? What was happening? Why was I finding it so difficult to get things done? Things I wanted. Isn’t that what my control and freedom were all about? No schedule and no routine, doesn’t that equate to me having more time and motivation to do the things I really wanted to do?
Guess what? Not so. I gradually realized (and I do mean gradually) that having a routine, having a schedule, being (the D word), disciplined was very freeing! I looked forward to my days because I knew exactly what was happening and when it was happening. I was getting things done. Those goals that I had wriiten down, that life I envisioned; things were falling into place. The light at the end of the rainbow, well I can see it.
Discipline, routine, a schedule, and a plan. Who would have thought the things I ran away from were the things I needed most? That’s how it usually happens though right?
Let me know what you’re running from? Take a deep look. It may be exactly what you need.
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