Change my Life

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I write about clarity and taking consistent action quite a bit. It’s because I have realized in my own life how important these steps are if I am to have the life that I really desire. I also did not realize how difficult it would be for me to have clarity and take consistent action. You see, at the time, my mindset was not right for having the life that I wanted. Why? I didn’t think that it was important for me to have structure and discipline. I thought I could take shortcuts to the life I desired. I slowly (yes slowly) learned that it was time for me to stop resisting and follow the pattern of others who were living their dreams if I wanted to change my life.

After I made the decision to follow the pattern, it was still difficult for me. I still had a lot of resistance, a lot of limiting beliefs that I had to let go of. I worked through some of my obvious blocks that allowed me to work on my personal development. I was doing what needed to be done to become a person who took consistent action in my life. Things were changing, I was changing and I loved who I was becoming.

Maybe you’re like how I was, wanting change but not sure how to make it happen. You can take years and do it alone, or you can have someone like me help you get to where you want to be quicker. I’ll help you map out a plan so you can take action to have the life you really want. We’ll have what I call a Virtual VIP session ( ~3hrs). Just you and me on a video conference so you can have what you desire in your life. Let’s have a complimentary conversation about where you are and where you want to be in your life and see if a VIP session is best for you. Schedule your call here.

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Are you the one?

Are you the one? Picture of pumpkins

Are you the one?

Are you the one? The one who is truly ready to do something to make your life even better. If you’ve been reading my blog, following me on social media, or reading my emails you know that I am passionate about helping you to live life the way you really desire to. To live life fulfilled, focused, and achieving whatever you purpose in your heart to do.

In my own life, when I was feeling stuck and taking inconsistent action I so badly wanted someone to “hold my hands” and guide me, show me how to get out of the rut that I was in for way too long. I want to be that person for you. I want to “hold your hands” and guide you from where you are to where you want to be. Will you allow me to do that for you?

I’ve created a 3 month private, one on one program (don’t worry, it’s virtual so you can be anywhere in the world, we do it on the phone or video conferencing). The goal of this program is for you to be transformed into a person who knows what you want and goes after it. You’ll get clear about what you want, we’ll map out a strategy for you to get it, and clear those limiting beliefs that are keeping you back from taking action. It’s exactly what I wanted years ago and I’m pleased to be able to offer it to help you. To find out more about how this program can help you and to see if it’s the right one for you schedule a complimentary conversation with me and see how I can help you have the life you really desire. Are you the one? Schedule your call HERE.

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The Key to a Rich and Satisfying Life

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What does a rich and satisfying life look like for you?

I talk a lot about living the life you really want, having clarity, and taking action. However, there’s something that I believe has to happen in order for you to live the life you really want. That something is that you have to have a relationship with Jesus Christ. You have to want to do life His way. You can have everything in place, know what you want, taking action to make it happen, and you can still be dying on the inside. You see, a rich and satisfying life is not possible without Him.

When Jesus is the head of your life, when you have relationship with Him, He will lead and direct you. When you follow His way, when you consult Him first, life is so much better. You’ll have the life you really want, and it will be a rich and satisfying life. Not many can say that about their lives. Will your life be rich and satisfying?

If you know there is more to life than the way you’re living it but you don’t know what to do about it let’s talk and create a strategy for getting you there. A rich and satisfying life is possible, and it’s possible for you. Schedule a complimentary call with me HERE.

 

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Best Motivational Posts of the Week

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Best motivational blog posts of the week trophy.

What a week it’s been! I wanted to do a post to showcase my best motivational blog posts this week that will help you to live the life you really want. It all starts with the want to, you have to want to live the life you really want. Without first making that decision you won’t be able to follow through with taking action to make your dream life your real life. Ready? Here are some posts I recommend for you:

  1. Lessons learned from FAU football (http://arichandsatisfyinglife.com/faufootball/)
    This is a good one. There’s so much to learn from sports but this lesson really inspired me.
  2. Lessons learned from Ben (http://arichandsatisfyinglife.com/ben/)
    Ben is my mom’s dog. He’s a lot of fun but he taught me something about going after what you want.
  3. Manifest Manifest Manifest (http://arichandsatisfyinglife.com/manifest-manifest-manifest)
    There are times in life where what we want is going to require more than what we have in our hands. At those times your faith is there to help you out. In this post I share how to get what you’re believing for.
  4. What are you waiting on (http://arichandsatisfyinglife.com/waiting/)
    So many people are waiting for everything to line up before they start living. Life is meant to be lived in every moment. In this post I encourage you to enjoy your journey.
  5. My Journey (http://arichandsatisfyinglife.com/journey/)
    This post is a little about me and my love of all things personal development. I wrote it to encourage you to not give up on what you really want your life to look like.
  6. 3 Ways Clarity Will Change Your Life (http://arichandsatisfyinglife.com/claritychangelife/)
    Getting clear about what you want your life to be like is so important. In this post I share why.
  7. 3 Steps to Maintaining Motivation (http://arichandsatisfyinglife.com/maintainingmotivation/)
    Knowing what you want and staying motivated to make it happen can be challenging. In this post I share how to stay motivated.

Let me know how the best posts of the week inspired you to go after your dream. I’m offering a complimentary conversation to help you make your dream life your real life. Schedule your call HERE.

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What are you waiting on

I want to encourage you to live. Stop waiting for the conditions to be favorable, convenient, and even perfect; just live, right now, where you are.

This is exactly what Alia did after having several coaching conversations with me. She couldn’t decide what to do with her life and was in limbo. Here’s what she had to say:

“Rochelle was instrumental in making me get out of my limbo and take action. Today I am half way through a degree in healthcare and I feel great!!”

If you’ve been waiting to fully live your life and feel stuck in a holding pattern, schedule a complimentary call with me let’s see how I can help you take action and move forward. SCHEDULE CALL

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Push past your feelings

I’m feeling lazy today, I think I’ll do nothing.

I’m doing a 30 day blogging challenge (Blogging Challenge) I won’t lie to you, the struggle is real. Seriously, there are days that I really have no desire to blog. Not only is there no desire, sometimes I can’t even think of what to blog about. Yikes! Not a good problem to have during a 30 day challenge. On days when I’ve felt this way do you know what I did? I wrote the blog post anyway! Yup. Those feelings are fickle and if I had given in to them I probably would have written about 2 blog posts so far, instead of 10.

Being consistent, keeping my commitments to myself, and not giving in to that voice telling me to throw in the towel, are why I am going to be successful with this blogging challenge. I want to encourage you today to not give in to feelings that are telling you to quit. Push past your feelings and do what you’ve committed to doing. You will be rewarded. Your whole life will change because when you’re consistent, when you’re keeping commitments to yourself, and when you’re doing what needs to be done even if you don’t feel like it, your life has to change because you have changed.

Is taking consistent action difficult for you? Do you need help to push past your feelings? Schedule a complimentary conversation with me let’s see how I can help. SCHEDULE CALL

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Consistent Action Brings Rewards

Consistency, being steady. I chose to talk about taking consistent action today because I’m doing a 30 day blogging challenge and today the words won’t come. Instead of giving up I decided to blog about having no ideas for a post. Writing about it would keep me on track, consistent, and still committed to the blogging challenge.

I could have easily made a decision not to write today.When I’m not inspired to write it’s frustrating. However, not writing would be me not keeping my word to myself. I did not want to let myself down so I showed up.My reward for showing up, words started flowing and here I am encouraging you to be consistent with whatever you said you would do.

Being consistent is a choice, a decision that you make. When you’re taking consistent action you are becoming disciplined, you’re becoming a person of integrity, you’re becoming a person who gets things done.Some days it won’t be easy but it will be worth it, you’re worth it.

What keeps you from being consistent?

Is taking consistent action difficult for you? Schedule a complimentary conversation with me let’s see how I can help. SCHEDULE CALL

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Quiet Time Gives Life: 5 Signs that it’s time for some

Me having quiet time in a tree

Me having quiet time in a tree

Quiet time. It seems like a rare commodity. People are not making time for it anymore. I wonder why? Are they afraid of it? Are you afraid to be alone with yourself and God? Quiet time gives life, could this be why it is so elusive?

Lately my quiet time has not been a priority. I’ve been squeezing it in after everything else in my day is done and I’m so tired that the time I’ve been spending is so short. It’s time for me to make it a number one priority again, nothing should come before my quiet time, my time with the Lord. Once I spend time with Him He shows me how to manage my time for everything else. Once I spend time with Him, the answers to whatever problems I may be facing become clear and I am equipped to face whatever life dishes out. Quiet time gives you life and here’s how to tell that you haven’t made it a priority:

  1. You feel like your life is out of control.
  2. You feel agitated.
  3. You struggle to make decisions.
  4. Something is bothering you and you can’t seem to put your finger on what it is.
  5. You’re not the nicest person to be around.

If the list resonated with you, it’s time to make quiet time with the Lord a priority. Start where you are, wake up a few minutes earlier, go to bed a few minutes later, do whatever it takes but start somewhere.You don’t have to have big chunks of time to get started, 15 minutes is a good starting point. As you spend time with the Lord He’ll show you how to free up more time for what matters most.

Spending time alone may be difficult for you, your mind races, you can’t focus, the attention deficit really kicks in. It’s ok, keep going. The more you have time alone, the easier it will become to quiet your mind. During your quiet time tell the Lord why you’re there, what you’re feeling and then just wait on Him; He’ll give you everything you need, sometimes right then, sometimes as you go about your day. Trust Him and when you hear, obey. Your quiet time gives life, don’t go without it. Let me know how having quiet time has made your life better.

 

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When You Feel Like Giving Up

When you feel like giving up, don’t. There is so much to learn on the journey to having your desires show up in your life. When you give up, the personal development needed for you to become the person who can have what you desire doesn’t happen. So, the next time you feel like giving up…don’t.

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