Doing these 3 things can change everything

Can doing 3 things really change your life? Come along with me and let’s find out. If you’re going to embark on this journey with me you have to see it through, that means if you start you have to finish. If you struggle with this you may want to check this out:  A Course in Personal Development . Now, onto the 3 things.

  1. Get really clear about what you want.  I know, you’re probably tired of hearing all the talk about clarity, but it really is necessary if you are going to change anything in your life. What do you want? I mean, in detail, what do you REALLY want? The question is simple enough but you’ll be surprised how many people struggle with answering it. Knowing what you want requires that you dig deep and be honest with yourself. Sometimes, we just don’t want to take that trip. If you really want things to change I encourage you to go there, because the truth is, nothing much will change in your favor until you do.
  2. Create a plan for getting what you want. You’re probably thinking, “Are you serious? The reason I’m even reading this article is because I don’t know how to do this.” Well, you do know how to do this and if you completed #1 then this should not be too difficult. Clarity bring focus which is why the first step was to get really clear about what you want. Once you have the clarity you will know what’s necessary to have what you want. So, if you didn’t get really clear about what you want, go back and complete #1. Once again, the truth is, nothing much will change in your favor until you do.
  3. Take action. Yup, this. You can have clarity and a plan but nothing much is going to happen until you implement your plan. You can’t let your plans sit in a notebook or a journal and age. Taking action, even small ones, builds momentum and momentum is what is going to see the successful attainment of whatever it is that you want to do. If you struggle with taking action you probably need something like this:  A Course in Personal DevelopmentBy now you probably realize, nothing much will change in your favor until you do.

There you have it. The three things that you can start doing right now that can change everything in your life. The plan is very simplistic but it doesn’t mean that it will be easy to become the type of person who knows what they want and does what it takes to have what they want. If you’re struggling with becoming this person I want to invite you to A Course in Personal Development because remember, nothing is going to change until you do.

 

I Hate My Life

Have you whispered these words before? I know that I have whispered some variation of them more than once. It wasn’t that I hated my life. I didn’t like the way that I was living my life but I wasn’t doing anything about it. That’s what I hated. The inaction is where my frustration lie.

If I was so frustrated with the way that I was living my life why wasn’t I doing anything about it? Good question. After all, if you don’t like the direction you’re headed change paths right?  Easier said than done. You see, I struggled with the following:

1. I did not know what I wanted my life to look like? Because I had not figured out what I wanted my life to look like I didn’t know which path to take.

2. I didn’t know where to start. I didn’t know what I wanted my life to look like and I didn’t know how to figure it out. Can you imagine how frustrated I was?

3. I wanted someone or something (a book an article) to give me a plan to follow. I knew that if I could find a book or an article or someone to show me what to do I could figure it all out. I needed a plan for figuring out what I wanted my life to look like.

Well, I found out that everything that I needed was available to me. However, it was up to me to use them. In order to use them I had to:

1. Make a decision. This sounds so simple but it is one of the hardest things to do. It wasn’t until I made the decision to change the path that I was on that I started to see things differently. It’s one thing to say that you don’t like the path that you are on, but until you make a decision that you’ve had enough of that path and are ready for something else, your mantra will remain the same, “I hate my life.”

2. Get clear on what I wanted my life to look like. Once I made the decision that I was ready to change the way that I was living my life I needed to figure out what type of life I wanted to live. I have to tell you, the only one who knows the type of life that you want to live is YOU. Yup, that’s right. You are going to have to have to take time and ask yourself some questions and answer them too. This can be fun. Answer questions like what do I want to have, what do I want to do, what type of person do I want to be, what do I want to learn, what do I like?

3. Take consistent action. Once I had an idea of what I wanted my life to look like I had a starting point. I chose something from my list and did what I could towards making it a reality. Sometimes the step I took was as simple as buying a book or borrowing one. The important thing was that I took action. No matter how small, you have to do something. Action causes momentum to build and momentum is what you will need to make the life that you want a reality.

So, if you’ve been saying “I hate my life” more than you care to admit I want to encourage you to do the following: make a decision, figure out what you want your life to look like, and take consistent action to make that life yours.

Let me know how much fun you’ve had mapping out your new life 🙂

 

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