Quiet Time Gives Life: 5 Signs that it’s time for some

Me having quiet time in a tree

Me having quiet time in a tree

Quiet time. It seems like a rare commodity. People are not making time for it anymore. I wonder why? Are they afraid of it? Are you afraid to be alone with yourself and God? Quiet time gives life, could this be why it is so elusive?

Lately my quiet time has not been a priority. I’ve been squeezing it in after everything else in my day is done and I’m so tired that the time I’ve been spending is so short. It’s time for me to make it a number one priority again, nothing should come before my quiet time, my time with the Lord. Once I spend time with Him He shows me how to manage my time for everything else. Once I spend time with Him, the answers to whatever problems I may be facing become clear and I am equipped to face whatever life dishes out. Quiet time gives you life and here’s how to tell that you haven’t made it a priority:

  1. You feel like your life is out of control.
  2. You feel agitated.
  3. You struggle to make decisions.
  4. Something is bothering you and you can’t seem to put your finger on what it is.
  5. You’re not the nicest person to be around.

If the list resonated with you, it’s time to make quiet time with the Lord a priority. Start where you are, wake up a few minutes earlier, go to bed a few minutes later, do whatever it takes but start somewhere.You don’t have to have big chunks of time to get started, 15 minutes is a good starting point. As you spend time with the Lord He’ll show you how to free up more time for what matters most.

Spending time alone may be difficult for you, your mind races, you can’t focus, the attention deficit really kicks in. It’s ok, keep going. The more you have time alone, the easier it will become to quiet your mind. During your quiet time tell the Lord why you’re there, what you’re feeling and then just wait on Him; He’ll give you everything you need, sometimes right then, sometimes as you go about your day. Trust Him and when you hear, obey. Your quiet time gives life, don’t go without it. Let me know how having quiet time has made your life better.

 

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I Don’t Know What To Do With My Life

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Are you at a really frustrating place in your life? You want to move forward but you aren’t sure which direction to go?  Yesterday you wanted to start a business and today you want to be in a leadership position in the corporate world. Three months ago you dreamed of building a home for teens and two weeks later you were thinking about starting an accounting firm. You get the point; you can’t decide what to do. You’ve been going back and forth like this for years. The frustration builds and you don’t READ MORE

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Summer of Personal Development


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Summer is here and lots of people use the next few months to kick back and pretend like the struggles and disappointments of life are on hold. The truth is, summer is a time of growth. Look around and you’ll notice all the growing plants and animals. Summer can also be a time of growth for you. A time to do some introspection and work on personal development. A time to let go of behaviors,thoughts and patterns that are holding you back from being your most awesome you.

What has you feeling stuck? Not following through with what you want most? Is it a course you purchased but haven’t even looked at? A promotion that you want but haven’t taken steps to make yourself the ideal candidate? How about a better relationship with your loved one, children, friend? How about the gym membership and weight loss program you have purchased but still haven’t used?

A summer of personal development can change it all. Take a look at my private coaching and let’s see how I can help you become all that you want to be. Schedule A Call Today

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God’s Plan For Your Life: Seek Him

I’ve been sharing on periscope (@rochelleinglis) about finding out God’s plan for your life. Here’s part 3 of what I have been sharing. 

  

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The REAL Reason You Are Stuck


I know all too well what it feels like to be stuck. I was stuck for a very long time. It was such a frustrating place to live. I knew that I was not where I was supposed to be but I wasn’t clear on where I wanted to be. I had no idea how to get unstuck. Does this sound familiar?

After many years I finally got clear on what I wanted to do, be, and have. This clarity allowed me to create a plan of action to change my life. Getting here was not easy for me. I had much loss, disappointment, and frustration…unnecessarily.

Yes, you read correctly. Much of my turmoil was unnecessary and caused by yours truly. While I did not like the journey to get where I am, unstuck. My experience allows me to help so many people, people just like you. So, get ready for what I’m about to tell you. It may hurt but if you consider what I am saying you’ll realize it’s true. If you do what I suggest, things will change for you.

The real reason that you are stuck is one of the following:

1. You have not sought the Lord for His plan for your life. 

When someone tells me that they’re stuck I know that they have not sought the Lord concerning His plan for their life. God promises to give us wisdom if we ask for it in faith (James 1:5).

If you’re stuck take some time, get quiet and seek the Lord. He says He’ll answer so keep seeking until you have your answer. If I told you I buried one million dollars in your backyard for you, I am pretty certain that you would not dig in one spot for 3 minutes and give up if you didn’t find it. You would keep digging until you found it. All day, all night, all week if you had to. Use that same approach for finding out God’s will for your life. He has it, don’t stop seeking Him until you have it.

2. You know God’s plan for your life but are choosing not to do it. 

If you have sought the Lord for His plan for your life and He has told you and you have chosen to go a different direction, you will feel stuck.

God’s plan for your life is good (Jeremiah 29:11). He is God, He knows everything. If He tells you to do something, it’s  best for you. Even if what He is telling you to do doesn’t seem to be the answer to what you currently need.  Even if what He says makes no sense to you. Even if what He says scares you because you don’t think you’re equipped to do it. He knows best, His way is best. Obey Him or continue living in the land of the stuck.

There you have it, the real reason you’re stuck. Find out God’s plan for your life and do it!

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