About Rochelle Inglis

My name is Rochelle Inglis, I work with college students who are overwhelmed and having a difficult time handling the demands of college life. I help them create a plan of action for academic and life success, motivate, empower, and provide the accountability and support they need for college success.

Motivation, where did it go and how do I get it back?

Have you ever had the desire to do or have something but couldn’t find the motivation to actually get started? Maybe you got started but coudn’t motivate yourself enough to finish.  I’ve been there and it’s no fun. Because I have been there way too many times I want to share with you how to end the start and not finish cycle in your life.

First, when the motivation is lacking it’s usually because you’re not really clear about what you want. Clarity makes you excited, it gives you something to work towards. Without it, you’re going to wander aimlessly skipping from one project to the next, never completing anything.

Well, what if you have clarity but still no motivation? When you have clarity and no motivation it is most likely because you have clarity about the wrong thing. Are you doing what your heart is calling you to do or are you doing what you’re doing because everyone else is doing it? When you work in opposition to what God has called you to do it will always be a struggle; either you will not have motivation to finish or you will finish the work and be unhappy.

I was going to write more but I think that’s enough for you to think about and take action on. Until next time.

Doing these 3 things can change everything

Can doing 3 things really change your life? Come along with me and let’s find out. If you’re going to embark on this journey with me you have to see it through, that means if you start you have to finish. If you struggle with this you may want to check this out:  A Course in Personal Development . Now, onto the 3 things.

  1. Get really clear about what you want.  I know, you’re probably tired of hearing all the talk about clarity, but it really is necessary if you are going to change anything in your life. What do you want? I mean, in detail, what do you REALLY want? The question is simple enough but you’ll be surprised how many people struggle with answering it. Knowing what you want requires that you dig deep and be honest with yourself. Sometimes, we just don’t want to take that trip. If you really want things to change I encourage you to go there, because the truth is, nothing much will change in your favor until you do.
  2. Create a plan for getting what you want. You’re probably thinking, “Are you serious? The reason I’m even reading this article is because I don’t know how to do this.” Well, you do know how to do this and if you completed #1 then this should not be too difficult. Clarity bring focus which is why the first step was to get really clear about what you want. Once you have the clarity you will know what’s necessary to have what you want. So, if you didn’t get really clear about what you want, go back and complete #1. Once again, the truth is, nothing much will change in your favor until you do.
  3. Take action. Yup, this. You can have clarity and a plan but nothing much is going to happen until you implement your plan. You can’t let your plans sit in a notebook or a journal and age. Taking action, even small ones, builds momentum and momentum is what is going to see the successful attainment of whatever it is that you want to do. If you struggle with taking action you probably need something like this:  A Course in Personal DevelopmentBy now you probably realize, nothing much will change in your favor until you do.

There you have it. The three things that you can start doing right now that can change everything in your life. The plan is very simplistic but it doesn’t mean that it will be easy to become the type of person who knows what they want and does what it takes to have what they want. If you’re struggling with becoming this person I want to invite you to A Course in Personal Development because remember, nothing is going to change until you do.

 

When what you want doesn’t look like you expected

Have you ever pursued something and the results that you were expecting just weren’t happening? I have. It’s frustrating, you give your best effort, you hang in there and crickets. Why does this happen?

You may not be having the results you were expecting for many reasons but today I just want to focus on one. Maybe, just maybe, you’re not pursuing the right thing. Maybe, just maybe, something else has showed up but you’re so focused on your current path that you’re not willing to put it aside for a while and pursue what has shown up.

I’m learning to do this in my own life. There have been times where I was so committed to pursuing my purpose the way that I thought it should be pursued that I missed the path that God wanted me to pursue. It doesn’t mean that my purpose has changed; the path that I take to carry out that purpose has been adjusted. Same message, different path.

Is there something that you’ve been hanging onto when you see a different way being presented to you? I want to encourage to let your way of doing things go and grab onto the way that is right in front of your eyes. Letting go doesn’t mean that you have abandoned your “baby”, you’re just taking it with you to a new place.

In my 4 week program, A Course in Personal Development, we go through this and more to help you move from a place of inaction to action in your life. Learn more about it here: LEARN MORE

Your plan isn’t working because…

 

So, you made your plan and you’re ready to implement. You’re doing everything right, you followed the process, but something is still not right. You’re not getting the results you expected, you still feel empty inside, you’re not making the money you thought you would. Why?

The reason you’re still feeling stuck and not having the results that you wanted is because you are following YOUR plan and not HIS. You skipped the most important step to success, following His plan. You have to check in with God first and then you have to follow the plan that He sets before you. Until you do, you’re not going to have the results you want.

In my 4 week program, A Course in Personal Development, we go through this and more to help you move from a place of inaction to action in your life. Learn more about it here: LEARN MORE

I’m trying to transform my life but…


Have you ever bought a book or enrolled in a program that was supposed to transform your business or life but nothing changed? To be fair, nothing changed because you didn’t read the book and you didn’t engage in that coaching program. Why? It’s because there’s some growth that has to happen for you to become a person who takes action. 

Success (the completion of what you set out to do) doesn’t just happen. It’s intentional and it’s a process. Some people seem to be naturally driven and destined for success. It’s because they know what they want. Clarity will do that for you. 

That’s what A Course in Personal Development is about. It’s about becoming a person who knows what you want and taking action to have what you want. In 6 weeks I’ll walk you through the process of becoming a person who takes action. A person who doesn’t settle or live in the land of “I can do that if…” or “One day I’ll…” 

Join me for 6 life changing weeks. You can learn more about A Course in Personal Development here: LEARN MORE

Musings from a tree


While perched on a branch of my favorite tree today I had a realization. Backtrack. I’m calling it my favorite tree because it’s easy to climb and has a lot of low, sturdy branches. I digress, back to my realization. 

These plants and trees didn’t just spring up overnight. Seeds and seedlings had to be planted in good soil, watered, and the trees had to be given the time needed to grow. These plants withstood storms, hurricanes, and many dry seasons and they made it. 

Like these trees, your transformation is going to take some time too. Allow it to happen. Don’t rush the process, don’t skip steps. Can you imagine what would have happened if these trees received no water? Stay the course, read the books, watch the videos, take an action towards your dream and give it time. You’ll like what happens. 

Are you feeling stuck and don’t want to be? Schedule a complimentary call and let’s see what’s keeping you from living the life you really want. SCHEDULE CALL

I Don’t Know What To Do With My Life

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Are you at a really frustrating place in your life? You want to move forward but you aren’t sure which direction to go?  Yesterday you wanted to start a business and today you want to be in a leadership position in the corporate world. Three months ago you dreamed of building a home for teens and two weeks later you were thinking about starting an accounting firm. You get the point; you can’t decide what to do. You’ve been going back and forth like this for years. The frustration builds and you don’t READ MORE

Focus, Determination, and the Superbowl

The Superbowl is in a few days. My favorite quarterback, the great Tom Brady, is READY! Tom Brady didn’t get ready overnight. Years ago he made the decision to become a man of discipline. To be where he is now,  a 39 yr old elite quarterback, Tom made hard choices and many sacrifices (like no ice cream, yikes!). Focus and determination are why he is still revered today.

What choices are you going to make to become the person you want to be and to have the life that you want?

When you’re ready, I would like to have a conversation with you about the choices you will have to make to become the person you want to be and to have the life that you want. Schedule your complimentary call if you are ready to invest time and resources to have big change in your life GRAB YOUR SPOT

Love and clarity,
Rochelle

 

60 Seconds to the Top


I rode an elevator to the top of Willis Tower in Chicago, Illinois, 103 floors! It took 60 seconds! 

Sometimes we want our journey to our goal/dream to happen quickly, just like my elevator ride. Your journey to the top is not going to take 60 seconds. It’s a process and you don’t want to miss the personal growth and character development that takes place on the way to your goal. It will take longer than 60 seconds but it will be worth it. Make the most of your journey. 

I would enjoy speaking with you about what you want to accomplish and show you how to get past what may be holding you back from the successful completion of your goal/dream. Schedule your complimentary call GRAB YOUR SPOT